Sequoia Couples Retreat | San Juan Islands, Washington
June 21-24, 2024
This intimate kayak retreat is designed for adventurous couples at all life stages looking to unplug, rejuvenate and reconnect to your partner, self, and the natural environment. Over the course of three days, we will sea kayak between a chain of beautiful islands, lead you through the Gottman Seven Principles (7P) Program, and provide time to rest and relax with your partner.
You will return home feeling inspired, refreshed, and more deeply connected as a couple, with concrete skills and a life-changing, memorable experience to keep your relationship strong and satisfying for years to come.
The Retreat Weaves Together:
Sea kayaking instruction & travel
The Gottman Seven Principles Program
Guided mindfulness and relaxation exercises
Community with other proactive couples
Waterfront dining and campfires
Time to rest, relax, and play with your partner
The Gottman Seven Principles Program…
is based on the Gottman’s New York Times Bestseller, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, and will equip you with research-based relationship skills to strengthen your friendship, intimacy and ability to manage conflict as a couple. Relationship expert and wilderness guide Blair Hensen will lead this immersive retreat, and will provide you with ample time to have private conversations with your partner to facilitate meaningful and lasting change. No self disclosure is required. The retreat also includes a pre and post online group session with Blair.
Couples This Retreat Is Intended For:
Appropriate couples: *Couples at any life stage! *Couples contemplating engagement *Premarital/ engaged couples *Newlywed couples *Couples considering starting a family *Couples transitioning to “empty nesters” *Couples of all backgrounds, ages, faiths, and sexual orientations
Inappropriate couples: *Couples in severe relationship distress *Couples on the brink of splitting up *Couples with significant emotional or physical abuse *Severe mental mental health problems *Relationships where one or both partners are addicted to drugs, alcohol, or other compulsive behavior.
Cost Of The Retreat
The cost of this incredible couples adventure is $4,950. One registration per couple includes the all-inclusive experience, minus travel to/ from Anacortes Ferry Terminal. Inquire about scholarships, and military discounts.
What It Includes
Sea kayak instruction & all gear
Gottman 7 Principles Program
Gottman Couples Materials
Pre and post online sessions
Three nights camping on Lopez, Jones, & Turn Island
All Meals, drinks, appetizers
(Friday afternoon through Monday late afternoon)
Meet Your Facilitator
Blair Anne Hensen, MS, LCPC, NCC, is a licensed clinical professional counselor in Montana and credentialed as a National Board of Certified Counselors. She specializes in relationships working with clients to reduce reactivity, build inner awareness of thoughts and emotions, and deepen connection. In addition to counseling, Blair is a writer, speaker, and wilderness guide. Her writing has appeared in Ski Magazine, Mountain Outlaw, and Backcountry Magazine. She is a trained Gottman 7 Principles Leader and facilitates prevention programs for couples, families, and groups in a variety of settings to support growth in relationships, mental health, and decision making. She is also the owner and founder of Open Routes, and is so excited to work with Sequoia Immersions to lead this transformative couples enrichment adventure.
We are partnering with wilderness guides from Breakwater Expeditions for this retreat. The staff at Breakwater have decades of experience leading backcountry wilderness expeditions, and have guided sea kayak trips in the San Juan Islands for over ten years. We have worked with them for over seven years, and are thrilled to collaborate with them again to provide you this transformative experience.
Retreat Itinerary
Day 1
Meet at the ferry in Anacortes, WA (early afternoon — exact time TBD based on ferry schedule)
Take ferry to Lopez Island
Shuttle to campground
The evening will be spent with introductions, setting up camp, preparing our gear to launch kayaks Saturday morning, dinner, & the first couples session
Day 2
Couples morning session & breakfast
Launch kayaks from Lopez island
Lunch on Blind Island
Paddle to Jones Island & set up camp
The rest of the day will be spent with couples sessions, dinner, & down time to relax & explore the island
Day 3
Couples morning session & breakfast
Launch kayaks from Jones island
Paddle to Turn Island & set up camp
The rest of the day will be spent with couples sessions, dinner, & down time to relax & explore the island
Day 4
Couples morning session & breakfast
Launch kayaks from Jones island
Paddle to Lopez Island
Final wrap-up session
Ferry back to Anacortes & return home (early afternoon — exact time TBD based on ferry schedule)